Do as I say, not as I do

Posted on: January 7, 2019
By: Christie Garofano

Sometimes it takes wise counsel to point out that you need to practice something that is usually so obvious to you, something you constantly preach to others, and believe that you do fairly well until you are told otherwise. This is precisely what occurred to me right at the start of this month and year. The advice was that I needed to do something for myself. Hmmm I thought, what had I been doing or actually not doing for myself. The answer was that the things I were “doing for myself” were in fact not “for me” at all. My “free time” outside of my business, away from clients was spent still working, working on my business without interruption, taking care of our house, getting ready for the week ahead with grocery shopping, meal prep and doing laundry. I would never let that kind of “me time” pass with clients so why was I letting it pass with myself?

Without laboring on how I got to this point, lets just say that the seemingly simple advice is something that rose out of starting the year in a far too frenzied state after a couple weeks of holiday time that typically leaves me with a full gas tank for the new year and it is advice that I have taken to heart all month and it is a work in progress. For example, as I write this, I have already worked thru MY morning routine that is for ME and done everyday even if it means getting up at 3:30am to make it happen. In addition,  I have spent 40 minutes in yoga practice and 30 minutes walking my dog. What does the start of your day look like each day? When that alarm goes off, is the first thing you think about when am I going back to bed? Is it a rush of getting up and out the door? Is that really how you want to live? Not me and for the most part I am rock solid about starting the day well. My weakness has been how do I spend my time off on Saturday & Sunday. And this week it has been how can I carve out little nuggets of time for myself to get more of what I want in my week (yoga and personal workouts) while still accomplishing the necessary work of being a business owner, employer and personal trainer.

Whether you are a business owner, employee, stay at home parent, retired, care giver or all of the those things I encourage you to take some time to really think about how you are caring for yourself, like really caring and taking time for yourself and things in life that will keep your batteries charged so you can serve others positively and energetically because whatever your role, we serve others but cannot do that at 110% until we take care of ourselves (like the airplane oxygen mask instructions when we fly). As I said earlier, I am still a work in progress on the weekends but a much more mindful work in progress knowing that slowing down and working less on weekends will and has helped me be more productive during the work week. Lets’ face it, there is no 9-5 anymore no matter where we are at in life. Life and work is a series of balancing acts, ebbing and flowing with the tide. So be protective of yourself and your time. The old me used to fill up available times when clients went on vacation with other clients in their time slots. The new me will save that time for myself and work that I can do from home.

If you are reading this and thinking that it is just not possible to make these changes to take better care of you, I challenge you to challenge yourself and that limiting mindset. We are the only ones who can create that for ourselves and the earlier in life we accept that the better off we will be so do not want until retirement to start taking time. If we do not the result will be poor physical and emotional health, disease, a constant state of struggle and feeling like we are swimming against a tide and barely keeping our head above water. Life is short and that is no way to live so speaking from experience, shift, pivot, realign for a better you and you will be amazed at what will manifest and how you will be able to accomplish more with less effort.

As the title indicates, Do as I say and not as I was doing. In our studio, we do no only help people workout and improve their physical health but we help clients strategize other aspects of their life (nutrition and otherwise) to keep them on track with their exercise as it is those “other things” that will take us off course with exercise and recreation. Many of our clients, coaches & I will tell you that exercise is truly medicine. You can reduce risk factors for lifestyle diseases and others with regular and consistent exercise, you can improve mental health with exercise, you can reduce the need for prescription medication with exercise (when your Dr. says so), you can increase energy, improve body image, reduce pain and increase ease of lifestyle and seasonal activities of daily living as a result of exercise. Doesn’t that sound AWESOME? If so, get in touch with us so we can help you make your way! Start at our website – – or contact me directly at 345-9644 so we can discuss how it all works.

Onward & Upward….


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